Finding a Life Partner
This article is a work in progress...
Some considerations to take into account, in regards to what I am seeking in a life partner:
- I am looking for someone who can easily, and economically move in with me, or at least live local enough to date early on, several nights a week - or for a whole weekend. I get lonely in an empty house.
- I am looking for someone who doesn't have a drug or alcohol dependency issue. Vaping isn't an issue for me. Cigarettes can be...
- My mate doesn't need to have a serious income, but they should be able to work when and if needed (if bills overwhelm me, or if something ever happened to my income), or participate in a hobby which can bring in extra money at their leisure. Otherwise I am very happy being the breadwinner, and capable of that. I am however also not opposed to dual income family, or my mate even making more than me.
- I am an objectivist, and tend to be more right leaning than left leaning politically. If you believe Socialism is a good idea, then you need not apply.
- Being an Alpha, I am looking for someone who seeks me, as their Alpha figure. If you desire and fight hard enough to be my subordinate, you will be rewarded. This doesn't mean I always am a Dom, but I do enjoy that role, especially when it is desired from me.
- I need passion and intimacy in a relationship. You should also.
- Being able to have a crazy mind like me, and clicking right away at nerdy stuff, is a huge plus. Don't be shy. The worst thing you can do is have nothing to say, or no muse to inspire me. If we can't click on a combined, non-sexual topic of interest, then there likely won't be any chance in a long lasting relationship.
- Children / pets aren't an issue for me. I have a large enough house, that space isn't an issue, and I have been told I am a good father figure.
- I am hoping to find someone who can cook well, or learn to cook well, as I do enjoy that trait, and also enjoy cooking together.
- I am hoping to find someone who is somewhat into gaming, and also somewhat into arts and crafts. I do encourage people to be creative and engage in projects and learning activities on their own.
- I enjoy time alone, to focus on my projects; but I also enjoy time together. Routines are nice, and mutual projects are nice too.
- I do like to get somewhat fancy, and go out to dinner, or go on day trips from time to time. I'd like for my mate to also be able to enjoy that. And while looks aren't always important, it would be nice if they were about to take the time to make themselves up for such a fancy night out, so as to put a smile on my face when other guys lust over her. lol
- Finances don't have to be combined, but we should trust each other enough to share and divulge such info, if desired.